Luke is borderline obsessed with basketball these days. He has a goal in the garage but has never had a normal sized ball to play with, since the goal was a hand-me-down. I've been meaning to get him a ball for months now, and every time I go to the store, I forget.
On Monday he and I were wandering around Target and I remembered to look for a ball. I found the perfect one - perfect sized AND it had the Little Einsteins on it. He was instantly in love, and held it in the cart with him while we finished our shopping.
I brought the goal in the house when we got home because it was too cold to play outside (at least too cold for the weather wimp that is his mom!) He had a blast playing most of the day on Monday - the ball even had to take a nap with him. When his Daddy got home Monday night, he couldn't wait to show him how he could shoot a basket.
Well he was playing, and he fell down. It was a pretty good fall, too; I remember thinking "ouch". He started crying, and it was a different kind of cry - one I'd never heard him cry. He was obviously in pain.
One thing we've learned with Luke is that if we act like nothing happened, tell him he's fine, and distract him with something else - he realizes that everything is okay and he goes on with his life. But if we act like something happened, it just makes everything worse and he gets very dramatic.
So we played it off, gave him hugs and tried to distract him. It didn't work. He kept crying, almost screaming in pain, and grabbing his left arm. So we took his shirt off to get a better look.
His arm didn't appear out of socket or dislocated because we could move it - he just cried every time we tried. I tried to distract him with some fruit snacks and he wouldn't even hold the bag. That's when we knew he was in legitimate pain. He kept pinching his elbow and whenever Nate would ask him where it hurt, he'd say, "in the middle".
We didn't want to rush to the ER if nothing was wrong, so we decided to watch him for a little while. We gave him some Motrin, figuring that if something was seriously wrong, the Motrin wouldn't help. He and Nate sat on the couch and Nate held his arm to immobilize it. As long as it didn't move, he didn't cry. They watched Madagascar and then we ate dinner. Two hours after it happened, he still wasn't moving the arm and if it moved accidentally, he cried.
At this point, he and Nate got in the shower and I called our pediatrician's office. The nurse I talked to was a gem. The best thing she asked me was "Is he in mild, moderate, or severe pain?" Um...lady, he's TWO! He doesn't know the difference - all he knows is that it hurts! Anyway she said that if he couldn't move the joint, or if he was in pain when we tried to move it, then he needed to be seen tonight. So I told Nate to get ready to go when he got out of the shower.
After the shower, I took Luke to his room to get dressed. He was standing in front of the space heater in his room and while he was distracted, I started moving his arm around. He didn't even react. After a minute, I pointed out to him that I was moving his arm and he wasn't hurting. He said, "Oh!" And from that moment on, he was fine. Nate came in the room, dressed and ready for a night trip to the ER. Luke tackled him upon entry. Needless to say, we did not go to the ER.
Part of me wondered if something was actually wrong, but the Motrin was camoflaging it. But we figured worse case scenario, he'd be in pain Tuesday morning and we'd just take him to the pediatrician and avoid the ER. He woke up at 6 AM on Tuesday. The only thing we heard to indicate he was awake was his ball bouncing on the floor of the living room.
He's been totally normal ever since. We aren't sure what exactly happened - maybe it did hurt and he was just scared to move it again because he didn't want to feel that pain again. We'll never know. We're just thankful that he is okay...and that we didn't have to make a trip to the ER on Monday night!
Oh...and I'm pretty sure that I got a couple gray hairs that night. :)